What are Cozy Games? Craving Comfort Over Chaos

Video games on the whole are a key form of escapism for an ever-growing audience. Whether you’re trying to create the perfect virtual space, or dive into a gripping story, we all just love not thinking about things for a while.

Introducing: the cozy game genre. These peaceful, positive worlds have kept players glued to keyboards and controllers worldwide, praised for their stress relief and rewarding gameplay.

But what are cozy games and why have they become so popular?

This post is a tiny peek into the genre for those curious about maybe starting their first cozy game playthrough or anyone looking for inspo for their next obsession. Let’s dive in!

What makes a game cozy?

I think it’s important to mention that the word ‘cozy’ is subjective—it'll mean something different to everyone. Some people might even think Call of Duty is cozy if first-person-shooters are their idea of a chill time. But overall, cozy games usually have several of these traits:

• Peaceful soundtrack
• Calming (usually colourful) visuals
• Positive/hopeful vibes
• Relaxing gameplay
• Low (or no) stakes
• Non-violent (or not super explicit violence)
• Beginner-friendly with straightforward mechanics

Wikipedia defines a cozy game as,

“... a video game which emphasizes non-violence and relaxation”

and, as we all know, Wikipedia is the source of all truth (bless you Wikipedia gods).

Of course, we’ve actually always been playing games like this. As a kid, I would play The Sims until my mum ripped me away from the chunky home computer in our living room—but it feels like only recently these games have been categorised.

Where did cozy games come from?

Many people trace the roots of cozy games back to life sims like The Sims and Little Computer People (I’d never even heard of this one, so please let me know if you played this as a kid!) And we can’t forget the birth of the farming sim, Harvest Moon. I don’t know what I’d be without my silly, little virtual farms.

Personally, looking back, cozy games for me as a child were mainly on my beautiful, pink, Nintendo DS Lite when I played stuff like Nintendogs, Cooking Mama and Professor Layton. But even before that I was playing flash games on sites like Miniclip, or dressing up Barbie in a point-and-click game.

As I’ve grown up, relaxing games I can get lost in still bring me so much joy, and I honestly can’t imagine life without a Balatro run every other day or a month-long stint in Minecraft.

Everyone’s got their faves, but here’s a little list of mine:

• Stardew Valley – farming sim I’ll always come back to
• Fields of Mistria – another farming sim with hot romanceable characters
• The Sims (specifically 1 & 2) - the ultimate life sim and my childhood
• Minecraft – a creative, sandbox adventure that never gets old
• Balatro – addictive deck-builder with a twist
• Spiritfarer – management adventure that deals with grief (tissues needed)

What’s all the fuss about?

Why do we love cozy games so much? Well, it’s because they’re cozy! But there’s actually more to these beautiful chunks of code.

They make us feel safe and comforted, they relieve stress and anxiety, they’re pretty simple to grasp, and they’re honestly super cute. But looking deeper, they also slow life down. They reward patience in a time when day-to-day life is chaotic, flinging you from one thing to the next. And you can usually progress without punishment. And if you stumble, you’re encouraged to try again. Cozy games are like a really good friend who’s always looking out for you.

They’re also a perfect break from more intense playthroughs as they’re less demanding and anxiety-inducing (looking at you, Five Nights at Freddy’s).

Whatever the reasons are for hopping onto a new Stardew Valley save or organising a drawer full of kitchen utensils in A Little to the Left, this genre offers a relaxing, rewarding experience. They’re also an easy way to get into the gaming scene in the first place. Most games are suitable for all ages, all identities, and create a great sense of togetherness among groups such as the LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent communities.

So, if you’re ever wondering if a game you’re playing is cozy, ask yourself: is this relaxing for me? Do I feel the stresses of everyday life melting away? When did it get to 2am oh my god how long have I been playing this?

If the answer to the first two questions is ‘yes’, then you’re probably playing a cozy game (whatever that means for you). Obviously, this is more evident if you’re snuggled up on a comfy chair with a blanket and your fave snacks. Happy gaming!

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